A cue-card size piece of paper or thin cardboard with the word "ASS" written on it. Whenever one person functions like an ass to a different, the ass-ee can provide the card into the ass-er as a way of letting the person realize they crossed a line and are usually only acting like an ass. Generally speaking seen as a peaceful option to punching some body when you look at the supply to be an ass. This is available in convenient in locations where punching is recognized as unsuitable, including the office, supper aided by the in-laws, and church. The anal same in principle as a "VCard". One keeps their particular Asscard until penetrated anally.